A simple, but useful command, this script will show all connections to an SQL server. Replace Database Name with the name of the database and click go.
use master GO select name as [database], rtrim(hostname) as hostname, rtrim(program_name) as program_name, rtrim(net_library) as net_library, rtrim(loginame) as loginame, login_time, last_batch from master.dbo.sysprocesses inner join master.dbo.sysdatabases on master.dbo.sysdatabases.dbid = master.dbo.sysprocesses.dbid where name = 'Database Name' order by hostname;